“How to Raise a Good Child” is a book by Umnitsa Publishing House, especially for caring parents who want to see this quality in their child. It was published in 2009. Its compiler - Andrei Manichenko, she is included in a set of books to help develop the character of the baby. It is suitable for a baby from 2-3 years.
This book is a collection of fairy tales, but of a special kind.
What is the difference from ordinary fairy tales?
It contains personalized fairy tales. What is their meaning? These are fairy tales about your child. Those in which he acts as the main character.
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This technique was proposed back in the 80s of the last century by the greatest Georgian teacher Shalva Amonashvili. He proceeded from the fact that the child is always happy to perceive fairy tales. They act much better than the teachings and directions that the child "does not hear."
And in the fairy tale there is no direct indication of how to behave, there are no instructions. She gently and unobtrusively shows the child the right decisions, pushes the child on them.
In each of these tales there is a space in the place of the name of the protagonist, parents must insert the name of their child, his main features. It is necessary for the child to recognize himself. A fairy tale will lead him through amazing adventures. Your son or daughter will have to show all his best qualities. In fabulous conditions, your child will overcome all obstacles precisely because of his kindness.
Let the tale tell the child a mitt. You will have to put it on, and read the story in a slightly changed voice. Perhaps, in this situation, your baby will have more confidence in the toy tiger - because he never scolded or reproached the child for anything. And in the eyes of this tiger cub your baby will always be a young man who can be praised.
This book describes several basic qualities that make up kindness - the ability to be honest, open, noble. The child will have to show compassion, learn to love. And many other things, without which it is impossible to imagine a good person.
How it works
The kid passes all the fabulous events through himself. He associates himself with the main character, who is always positive in a fairy tale. Your child will try to behave in the same way as he acted in a fairy tale. He really wants to match himself to a fairy tale. And he will begin to achieve this. Perhaps he will ask you to read one of these tales to him again - which means that he needs to solve some problem for himself, and the fairy tale will help him in this.
This book is also useful in that if a small child plays enough into a fantasy world, then he will not need him in his teens. And a child who has already grown up can more easily adapt to the rules of adulthood.
