Increasingly, in big cities you can see young mothers not with the usual strollers, but with slings of various colors and patterns. It is not surprising that the use of a patchwork holder causes a lot of controversy and speculation. Who is right: defenders talking about the virtues of slings, or opponents violently proving the danger of such a device? In our article, we will present objective pros and cons, and you yourself can decide whether to carry your baby in such a “cradle” or not.
It would seem that in terms of carrying one can only discern the benefits: carrying it is convenient to ride in transport and do homework, you can feed the crumb practically anywhere. And this is not all the benefits of sling. However, here you can also find a fly in the ointment: impaired posture in the baby, lack of eye contact with the mother, etc. A particularly heated debate in the press and parent forums began after the American Committee on Consumer Goods reported deaths resulting from the use of holders.
Thesis one: sling is life threatening
the confirmation
Indeed, in recent years there have been several cases in which children are suffocated in these carryings. (On May 7, 2009, Derrick Fowler gasped in the Infantino carry-on bag, Derrick was 6 days old. The parents of the baby sued 4 million dollars from Infantino LLC. This is not the first such death, 14 babies died in suffocation bags in 20 years. The U.S. Consumer Goods Commission issued a warning about the dangers of carry bags.) In infants, the cervical muscles are poorly developed, and they are not yet able to control the position of the head. Therefore, infants can lean their nose and mouth against dense tissue and die due to a lack of oxygen in just a few minutes. Another danger lies in congenital reflexes: the baby in a confined space often folds into an embryo pose, clutching his knees to his chest. In this position, he can neither breathe normally nor cry, thereby calling mom for help.
Rebuttal
The culprits of such accidents were sling bags, against which domestic and foreign pediatricians are opposed. For small children, slings with rings or slings-scarves are suitable. In these models, the position of the crumbs is natural, like the mother has on the handles, and breathing fabrics are used for their production. In such carryings the baby simply cannot suffocate. In the May-Sling (a hybrid of a “scarf” and a backpack), the baby is completely vertical, therefore, nothing prevents its breathing.
How to choose a sling? Which one to choose: Sling with rings, Sling-scarf, May-Sling, Sling-backpack, Fast-Sling (pros and cons). Video instructions -https://kid.htgetrid.com/en/posle-rodov-dlya-mamyi/slingomama/kak-i-kakoy-sling-vyibrat-dlya-novorozhdennogo-rebenka.html
Thesis two: sling is harmful to the musculoskeletal system of the child
the confirmation
A similar danger may arise if the transfer device is not used correctly. Some irresponsible mothers carry children with their legs clamped together, which are laid to the side. Another incorrect position - children's legs are very bent at the knees.
Rebuttal
Although you can use the sling from birth, it is only necessary to carry a small child in a position appropriate to his age. For example, for up to four months, babies are best kept horizontal. In some models, you can wear it vertically, without fear of harming the musculoskeletal system. Spread the baby's legs in different directions and fix them. The wound fabric will press the baby firmly against you and relieve stress from the spine. It turns out that this pose will help prevent hip dysplasia.
Thesis three: sling accustoms the child to the hands, making him non-independent
the confirmation
“Do not get your hands on it!” - Opponents of babybearing say, arguing that the constant use of such a device leads to excessive attachment of the baby, lack of independence, whims and tears. Indeed, such “tame” children get used to the constant presence of the mother, which can complicate adaptation.
Rebuttal
Newborns and infants need maternal care every second. This is indicated by children's psychologists, pediatricians, and early development specialists. And mothers themselves note that in such a “cradle” babies cry less, calm down faster and feel more confident thanks to their mother’s warmth and beating of her heart. By the way, if a child asks for pens, this does not always mean that he is naughty. Perhaps he was tired or overexcited. A real salvation for you can be a sling.
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Thus, a sling can only be harmful if used improperly - for example, using a model designed for older children. When laying the baby in the carrier, it is necessary to monitor the load on the spine, breathing, and when he begins to walk - feel free to let go to explore the world. Well, to wear your child in a sling or not - it's up to you.
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Video: Slings - Pros and Cons
Definitely you should not use the sling constantly, but in some situations this is a very convenient way to take your baby with you. Another thing is if you push a child there and wear it all the time, then problems may already arise
She herself had a choice after the birth of her son what to buy: an ordinary stroller or sling. Still, I decided to take the stroller, because it was checked, and then little was known about the slings.Now she could have taken advantage of the sling, as it became clear that they are not at all dangerous, and this article is a confirmation of this.
A good program where Policeitsamako and a man in a medical gown speak about the merits of sling. Very true, everything is noticed. Sling made of fabric is really a physiological carrier, which can greatly facilitate the life of mother and baby, but carrying a “kangaroo” where the child hangs on the crotch and is facing the world is dangerous.
At the end of the video there was an insertion from the Health program with Malysheva, and so this host is completely unaware of what a real sling is. They call it all the slings, which is incorrect. Only horror leads, as always.
I would like to wish parents to read more reliable information and make their choice in favor of the correct slings. The correct ones are slingsharf, May-sling and sling with rings. Ergoryukzaks are also permissible from the age when the child is already sitting.
Slingomama of two children.
I do not understand the hype around the slings. Why is it, if there is a stroller? Only at home to free his hands and do something around the house, when the baby of the first three months of life constantly wants to be on the hands.
And to go somewhere, to go - only in a carriage. Transport is already adapted for this, shops too. If not, I’ll ride with a stroller and spend my money where I care about customers.
Who is not in the know, there is a federal law that obliges all social facilities to have ramps. destination. I have to complain.
Sling is bad for mom first. Why not a word about this? Or does everyone have powerful backs and strengths to put to? Or do servants wear it?
Then my congratulations and envy 🙂