Do you think we will talk about the crowds in stores where everyone is in search of New Year and Christmas gifts, or about crowded city transport, where they can not always give way? Not! Let's talk about the super care of loved ones. After all, they armed themselves with knowledge from the Internet, where they read about what is useful and harmful to future mothers, and try to be useful. They probably know more than you, especially when it comes to the firstborn. And with a high degree of probability you will encounter any described situation from the list below.
1. They will not let you go absolutely NI-KU-YES!
Gathered to see the festive fireworks? No no and one more time no! Firstly, the crowd, where they can push into the stomach, and even a cold can “reward”. Secondly, the street is slippery. And if you slip and fall? And this is the danger of premature birth.
In a cafe to chat with girlfriends? This is also superfluous, it is better to wait, you can meet after the New Year holidays, because now the flu epidemic is just beginning. For gifts in the store - God forbid. They are pushed, offended, sneezed by bacilli. Here’s a mask for you, here’s herbal tea. However, you can go to the balcony - for about five minutes. Although, you know, an icicle fell on one woman once.
2. Future mothers - special holiday dishes!
Recipes for pregnant women are full of Internet pages. And although you are for a healthy diet, but all is well in moderation. What is offered for the New Year's feast for expectant mothers? Oven baked goose? Stop! It's unhealthy! Better - steamed chicken breast and broccoli mousse. Salad "Olivier"? You are welcome! How without him? But ... instead of sausage - favorite chicken breast, instead of mayonnaise - homemade yogurt. And no pickles! All the same broccoli will replace them! So they came to the dessert. Cakes and pastries are prohibited! Better - a healthy baked apple, you can with the curd. All!
3. Alcohol? Well no!
No doubt, the opinions of relatives will be divided. Some will say that half a glass of champagne will do no harm, New Year though. Yes, and French scientists have proved ... But others will, no doubt, be against, arguing that even a sip of champagne is unsafe for future crumbs. Do you think so too? But for some reason, no one is interested in your opinion, because the future of mothers changes their mood so quickly.
4. For pregnant women - thematic gifts!
What do you want? Jewelry? Makeup kit or favorite bestseller? Well what are you! After all, you now first of all need the necessary warm pajamas and a comfortable pillow for pregnant women, and soon the advice of a pediatrician Komarovsky and cream for stretch marks. And the blender doesn’t interfere: it’s convenient to prepare the baby puree. And here is a vitamin complex against hair loss and comfortable underwear for pregnant women.
No, we do not laugh, these are all real recommendations on request.
5. Every second toast - for replenishment of the family in the coming year!
Every second toast, presumably, will be for the long-awaited event, because all relatives should wish you and the future crumbs of health and happy moments, and well-being in the family, and patience, and wisdom. Maybe even a name will help to choose a future baby. Not bad in honor of grandparents.
6. The main thing for a pregnant woman is to follow the regimen
That is why right after the chiming clock fight - to sleep, because the expectant mother needs to rest and get enough sleep, observe the daily regimen and nutrition. Have you thought about that? Therefore, it is better not to argue and go to bed. And at the same time, it doesn’t matter at all that you cannot fall asleep, because the street is noisy, congratulations and explosions of firecrackers and fireworks are heard.
7. The holiday lasts a long time ... Get ready for visits!
Everything will be like in the fairy tale “In the country of eternal vacation”. There, the protagonist finally howled. Something similar can happen to you, because all the relatives, friends and relatives will decide that you, pregnant, bored and sad. Therefore, they will go in droves - with warm socks, boiled chicken breast and toasts.
Wait for the guests! Holiday greetings!
I am the mother of two beautiful sons and I know about the problems of a pregnant woman by hearsay. It is very important how long a pregnant woman is - lifestyle at 3 weeks and 38 is very different. For example, I ate everything I wanted - sausage, mayonnaise, sweets ... the main thing in moderation. I could afford once a month 100 ml of red dry natural wine or fresh natural beer. Of course, in the winter on the street you need to be as careful as possible, but to lock yourself up at home and deny yourself everything is nonsense. So instead of the hormones of joy and happiness, you can only earn yourself stress.
Pregnancy is not a serious illness, it is a normal condition of a woman. I think you don’t need to listen to anyone, especially if your neighbors say frank nonsense, which is described in the article. If pregnancy is proceeding as expected, there are no problems, then why should you deny yourself a holiday?
Well, actually the points listed in the article are not without common sense. And they can really push a pregnant woman, and it is really better to abstain from alcohol, and the prospect of getting something during pregnancy is at times potentially more dangerous than at any other time. But these are all normal and reasonable restrictions.So it should be actually. But without superfluous and artificially created “nightmares” it is quite possible to do if your environment listens to your wishes, of course. And there will be no gifts “for mom”, no toasts for the baby through time, no tips for the whole feast. And if the environment does not listen, maybe you should not celebrate the New Year with such an environment? Positive emotions are more important for a pregnant woman than the company of such people)))
For me, the culinary theme is not a problem at all, I am a vegetarian. So at least in position, at least I don’t have my own recipes for myself. in my family everyone eats as they like. I do not drink alcohol. But of course, the article was written with a great deal of irony, but there is a grain of truth in it, they will get it with advice, they will “strangle” it with care.