It is a pity that nothing can be predicted in advance. Then most people would definitely not make mistakes and do not regret that they did something wrong or did not at all, although they could ... If you have the opportunity to fix something, act and leave in the past all that is NOT necessary.
DO NOT leave time for a good rest
Nobody argues: indeed, there are very, very many cases. And home life, and tests, and doctors, and buying dowry for the future crumbs, and ... And for some expectant mothers, nesting syndrome also appeared: I would like to cook goodies, update the interior in the apartment, and have time to do everything at work. But is not it too much for a pregnant woman? Having completed everything, you can get not a feeling of satisfaction, but an endless feeling of fatigue.
DO NOT make yourself happy
Honestly, to please yourself, beloved, in an interesting position is not so simple. You can’t visit spas, traveling is a big question, purchasing clothes is minimal (why spend money on things that you can’t put on in a few months?). As for food, doctors recommend restricting sweets, so you won’t spoil yourself with cakes, sushi is also impossible ... and much more is impossible (Top 6 harmful products for pregnant women) ... But ... With the birth of the baby, there will be even more prohibitions and restrictions. There is an exit! Think carefully and make a list of what will cheer you up. Can't buy a fashionable skirt? So you can have some kind of accessory, for example, a scarf or a bracelet. Trips, excursions are taboo, but visiting the theater or exhibition is possible (by well-being). And the last thing - do not deny yourself communication with family and friends. Invite them to visit or go yourself while you have the opportunity.
DO NOT ignore the opinions of others
They decided to call the kid Egor? What did you come up with? Now - only Yegors and Danila. Do you want to give birth with epidural analgesia? How did you come up with this? Our grandmothers in general gave birth in the field, at best - at home with midwives! And what should I do to my husband in the delivery room? This process is not for men's eyes, our grandfathers walked a kilometer away! An amazing fact: it turns out that your pregnancy concerns not only you and your husband, but also a large number of people. This is the so-called joint project, in which not only relatives and close friends, but also colleagues, girlfriends, acquaintances, and neighbors take an active part. And what's interesting: they all have a clear opinion about what is good for mom and baby, and what is harmful, how and what to do when pregnant.You strongly disagree and did not ask for advice? You start arguing, getting angry, convincing, proving, and even worse - crying? Why such sacrifices? Brush it off and forget, and don’t even try to pick up the stingingly comic answers.
DO NOT control the purchase of children's things
Each mother wants for the baby to get all the best and preferably more. How to miss the moment when there is a sale, and in another store - gorgeous discounts. Stop! The most important thing is to stop on time! Why? Everything is very simple: you can not guess with the size, because it is not known how fast your baby will grow. In addition, relatives and friends will surely give and give you a bunch of things. And if something is not enough, then you can buy it later, because children's clothing stores offer a large assortment for different incomes, and besides, the time of shortage has long passed. You can make an order in the online store, without leaving your home, courier delivery works almost everywhere.
DO NOT take pictures
There are many reasons for this. Someone does not have time - one thing, then another ... Someone is dissatisfied with their appearance: I do not want the photo to show swelling, circles under the eyes or a very rounded tummy. Someone just despises the very idea of pregnant photo shoots - tired of these same photos in a dress on the floor and belly in the wall. Why capture all this? However, after some time, you may regret that you did not save this moment in history for your life, and that time will not be returned. It still makes sense to take several photos at different stages of pregnancy. If you don’t like it, you can remove it to the “far folder”. But it can also happen that you look at this period with completely different eyes and after a while hang a photo in a frame on the wall!
READ ALSO:
During pregnancy, she only did what was photographed.
Baby stuff up to 6 months was given by my sister, in excellent condition. I bought only a set of clothes for discharge.
Slept in the last month constantly.
Restricted communication with unpleasant people.
I went to the cinema and to the theater.
There were no such things that I forbade myself.
What is nesting syndrome, I learned in my own skin. I had the urge to glue the wallpaper at least in the nursery so that it was clean and new. All reasonable arguments were completely dismissed. The result - birth died two weeks ahead of schedule. Therefore, I really want to warn everyone: girls, you should not do this wasting your nerves and health for nothing. Nobody needs this.