If you are a mother, you will definitely recognize the characters that will be discussed in this article. Surely you have met them more than once in different online communities. Nevertheless, we will remind you of people whose conversation causes one desire - to run away so that you never meet them again. We sincerely hope that in these types of characters you will not recognize yourself.
1. Mom who knows everything
You can start a conversation on any topic, but such a mother will always have something to say. She will flood you with dozens of tips and will convince you that she knows exactly how to raise a child, how and what to feed him, what medicines to give for a cold, how much time to walk, how old to breastfeed, and from what point to start learning to read.
The nerdy mother confirms all the recommendations only with facts from her life, and there are no other authorities besides herself, in nature, has never been and never will be. In exceptional cases, she may cite a story from the personal experience of her granny or aunt. It is useless to object, refer to the expert opinions of pediatricians and child psychologists - do not even try. In response, you will be sharply told that all doctors only think how to pump out more money from patients. Psychologists, on the other hand, are crooks and lazy people who could not master a normal profession. Having met such a mother on some forum, stop talking and do not even try to argue. For each of your remarks you only get a ton of verbal garbage.
2. Overly active mom
In each community there are such mothers. They are very active, so great organizers come out of them. Only you need to be able to direct this energy into a peaceful direction. Starting with small steps, such mothers often bring the situation to an absurdity. They write appeals to the city administration, demanding to replace the dangerous swing in the yard, collect signatures on petitions against dog lovers, at the same time try to attach the puppies in good hands or urge them to donate money for the treatment of a seriously ill child, which, according to Google, does not exist. Very quickly, socially important initiatives clog your entire feed. As the popular song says, “I'd rather take out the garbage.”
3. Gossip Mom
In your small and cozy chat she knows everything about everyone. If she doesn’t know something, she will think of it with success, and then she will surely tell in private messages. And she will share this information not only with you, although the interlocutor will claim that this is a secret. In principle, there is nothing wrong with communicating with a gossip mother, but you should not invite her to private discussions, where they talk about something personal about close friends. You don’t want your secrets to become known throughout the Internet?
4. The victim mother
This is a mother whose everything is always very, very bad.All have periods of sleepless nights, while the children are very young, all children sometimes get sick, suffer from colic in the stomach, dabble, fight in the kindergarten and boycott for a while, and at school they get twos. Only a victim mother from any event makes a universal tragedy, and all interlocutors should spare her - for a long time and every day. Just do not try to clarify what happened to her so terrible that it did not happen to others. In response, you will learn that you are a cruel, heartless person and are not able to feel the subtle nature. Of course, and this will be a tragedy, but sympathy is no longer necessary.
5. Mom is the best child on earth
Getting to know this mom is easy. She uploads hundreds of photos of her beloved prince or princess. Moreover, everything that a child does is described as detailed as possible: here the baby is sitting on the pot, and here he eats porridge, and he smiles so sweetly! Of course, all parents are proud of their children, they are happy to share their achievements with other people. Only everything has its own limit.
In life with mothers of the best children in the world is also not easy. They demand that their kids be the first in any situation - they must play the main roles in New Year's performances, solo in the school choir. Let the rest of the children simply create the background, and their parents - they will be touched, nod their heads and agree that their children will never achieve such perfection.
In life it is not always possible to avoid unwanted communication, but on the Internet the problem is solved by simply adding to the black list. To send there a mother who extols her child to heaven is the right decision.
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