After the birth of a baby, young mothers have a lot of worries, but sometimes it seems that they spend all days on the Internet. On forums and sites, which are often called “moms”, serious passions boil and real battles unfold. Someone is wrong in matters of parenthood, which means that you need to leave your comment, and one more, and another ... Swear, find like-minded people and, tired but happy, return with direct responsibilities. There are many reasons for heated discussions, but there are 5 disputes on the Internet that all mothers get involved in.
Breastfeeding VS Mixtures
One of the main topics for disagreement between young mothers. Adherents of breastfeeding claim that this is the most useful, hygienic and natural way of feeding a baby, which helps to increase immunity and the proper development of the baby. Their opponents find other arguments - feeding binds a woman to the house, causes pain, and does not always protect the baby from illness. Inside this topic there are others that can be called highly specialized - up to what age you need to feed your child, where is it better to do this and is it worth it to be shy about others. The topic is heated by the media - stories regularly appear in them, then the nursing mother will be expelled from somewhere, then, on the contrary, they will be found among members of the State Duma.
Unexpected Happiness VS Planned Pregnancy
No less interesting topic for discussion - some mothers insist that the child has his own room, a lot of toys and the opportunity to study in Cambridge in the future. Others are sure - maternal love compensates for living in a studio apartment with a grandmother, some trousers for three and relaxation in the nearest village instead of a trip to the sea. Some admire those who give birth to many children without enough funds to satisfy all their needs, while others condemn them, and in each case, a life story is found to confirm their own rightness.
Where is the border when the birth of a child is heroism, bordering on recklessness, and does it even exist? Each, almost every mother will certainly come in to speak out, starting with "but I have ..." and ending with an unpleasant statement to opponents.
Super Mom VS Just Mom
Can a woman teach a child to read and write with one hand, prepare healthy meals with the other, and in between make money on maternity leaveto lose weight after childbirth and with a smile to bear children's disobedience? If you believe the forums, such super mothers really exist - in reality no one saw them, but on the Internet they meet through one. The rest are not too lucky with superpowers, but both categories do not think to listen to each other, but exchange mutual injections.
This is a battle of mothers, whose children themselves go to bed from three months old, obey the first word and learn to read at two years old, and those who consider all this a fiction, or even a mockery of common sense. The former, of course, do not believe in postpartum depression, do not attract grandparents, lose weight a month after giving birth, earn money sitting on maternity leave, and never raise their voices for children. The second - but just ordinary people who are a little less fortunate with the metabolism and the nature of children. Instead of exchanging experiences, both groups prefer barbs.
Whole Personality VS Sacrificial Love
A good mother should forget about work and friends, hairdressers and manicure salons are prohibited, and her husband is considered solely as a source of funds and a home helper. Is it so? No way! A normal mother should be a person and a happy woman, as a result of which the child will comprehensively develop and grow independent. Branches of the discussion - whether it is necessary to take the baby to kindergarten (negligent mothers need it or the child really needs it), involve grandparents in his upbringing (must help or we can handle it), use the services of a nanny (how can you trust someone else’s aunt to the child). As you can understand, sacrificial mothers consider everything listed as a real nightmare, and their opponents - an integral and useful part of life.
Lack of prohibitions VS strict education
Is it possible for adults to raise their children’s voices, slap them on the pope and use some kind of punishment system? Is it allowed only to parents, or are teachers in child care facilities also entitled to such things? What to do if children behave badly in the presence of strangers - make a comment or remember that it is strictly forbidden to touch someone else's? In support of their own rightness, both sides cite stories from experience, the opinion of psychologists, laws of the State Duma, UN conventions, quotes from the popes and other authoritative sources.
It is impossible to convince opponents or simply convey their opinion to them, but how interesting it is to spend time, and this concerns not only the participants in the discussions, but also numerous outside observers.
