With the birth of a child, sex in young parents is far from the first place. Nevertheless, the former sensuality can be returned. Even if every day is full of household chores, there are many ways to find time for two.
Effective actions to establish intimate relationships:
- Get up early - while the baby is still sound asleep.
- See your wedding photos (or honeymoon photos) together with a glass of wine.
- Play a board game (or cards) as you wish. And do not forget to say every detail!
- Take a shower together: in the morning and in the evening.
- Leave household chores during the baby’s daytime sleep for later ...
- Remember your favorite things to do before your baby is born. Fond memories of a wonderful time bring together!
- Book lunch at an unusual hotel and pretend that you had a perfect date the day before.
- Get your tickets for the morning run of the unpopular movie. Choose the last rows!
- When the grandparents took the child away, do not rush to start the general cleaning ...
- Take a cozy hotel room for at least a few hours. Order food and drinks ...
- Hint to your soulmate about how to spend the upcoming weekend. Waiting is an exciting prelude!
- Remember what you talked about when you started dating. Do not discuss work, children and everyday problems at dinner. Talk about joint vacation plans, tell funny news or jokes.
- Create a suitable atmosphere in the bedroom: put children's things and toys in another room.
It is not easy for young mothers to forget about household chores, completely relax and tune in a romantic mood. The main thing is to take off your home bathrobe, get essential oils, turn on the music and not think for a while about diapers and dinner!
We also read:
- How long after birth can I have sex?
- How to build a relationship with her husband after giving birth
Video: Intimate life after childbirth
About cinema and desire cards - interesting!) I was helped in this matter by personal care (gym, beautician) and a mandatory joint day off with my husband. The kid was left with a nanny or grandmother, and they themselves spent time together, talking on abstract, non-everyday topics.
In fact, there are many options. Sometimes it’s even useful to just relax from each other and family life. Ideally, leave the child to grandmother and go somewhere for a couple of days. Wow, passion is seething!
You can add one more to this list of solutions: invite each other to a date in a previously rented apartment with a laid table and a chic bed! It helps!
Here everyone writes “forget about everything for a day”, but what if there are no dads, moms who can sit with a child? I have this situation, I don’t know what to do. Yes, and the child whimpers forever, there is no privacy ...
In the first two months after the birth of the baby, I could not think of anything like that. I took care of the baby myself, no one helped. But over time, everything "settled down", maternal hormones ceased to rage)) And my husband and I gradually returned to a normal intimate life. I want to tell young mothers that you should not rush things. Give yourself a break and get away from stress like giving birth. And then everything will surely return to square one :)
What kind of grandmothers for a couple of days or a nanny for a whole day? And who will feed the baby? And if the child grew up from the age of teens, then no advice is needed, everything itself will be restored.
Fathers have one piece of advice: help your wives more and don’t even think about going left. Sex is not the main thing in life, family and children are more important.