Any parent will say that they know how to raise their child. But sometimes parents lack patience, and in some situations, and wisdom. Therefore, we sometimes go the easy way, making obvious and quick decisions to solve the urgent situation. But over time, misbehavior with a child turns into a problem. We have compiled the main tips that wise parents use.
The main rule for all moms and dads is don't cut your child’s wings, give the opportunity for self-expression. Having realized his potential, he will inspire you with his success.
- A good parent spends all time with the child, often forgetting about their own interests and hobbies. A wise parent does not forget to take care of himself, and teaches his children the same.
- A good parent spends every evening with the child's homework. The wise understands that the child must work on homework himself and bring the work to the end. If the lessons seem difficult, wise parents help or point to a solution to the problem, but do not solve everything for the child.
- To make amends, ordinary parents buy gifts and cater to whims. A wise parent gives out pocket money and teaches the child to independently manage their income so that the child learns to spend it correctly. But parents need to control costs and help them prioritize shopping. We also read: Children and pocket money. How to teach a child to relate to money
- Usually, mothers and fathers do not have enough time and patience to understand the reasons for the vagaries of children. All they want is an immediate result. Stop bad behavior immediately. Wise parents seek the cause and help in solving the child’s internal problem.
- Good parents strive to cultivate a worthy personality, respected, revered. They want their child to have the best job and a lot of money. Wise parents primarily care about trust and good, close relationships with the child.
- Often we watch parents desperately protect their children from problems and prevent any difficulties. The child does not always even ask for it. A wise parent sometimes gives the child the opportunity to experience certain difficulties, after which they help to realize what lesson the child has learned from the situation.
- Some parents are led to tears. And in order not to listen to tantrums again, they allow what the child wanted to receive. Such permissiveness does not play into the hands of parents in the future. A wise parent knows that if he said his firm no, then the decision is unshakable. Refusal should be reasoned so that when raising a child, he should understand why he should not do this.
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In my opinion, the main wisdom of parents is the ability to consider in their child some specific inclinations for something, in order to develop these abilities correctly.
In general, this is all true, but one should not forget about cases of exceptions. For example, consider the option: the child has hysteria in public transport and you ride this bus, for example, for two hours, then any parent will not want to be in the spotlight for the whole trip, but simply go on about the child and give him what he requires . Of course, it would be more correct to get out of the bus onto the street without giving up any slack, and there they will already explain to the child that this cannot be done and reassure him, and then wait for the next to go on!