Can't refuse an invitation to visit? Here are a few “good tips” that will definitely prevent you from being called.
An uninvited guest is worse than a Tatar
You accidentally found out that you had invited friends, but you weren’t! So what! Gather all the children and go boldly. There will be a surprise! After all, they will not expel you in the end.
Children - a must-have app, if any
And do not say that this is an adult party, and it will end in the morning! If friends called you, then they know that the children will come. Can little mischief-makers interfere? It is not without reason that they say that children are the flowers of life, and flowers bring joy.
A mild cold is not a hindrance
Have you already prepared a new dress to boast in front of a friend. And it was on this day that your child began to sniff and cough. And friends also have a baby. So what, this is not a reason to deny yourself pleasure. Even if the baby gets infected, it's okay. They say that if you are sick often in childhood, immunity is strengthened. With true friends you have to share everything: both good and bad ...
Daily routine is not for you
For many times, the grandmother says that visiting with a small child is too late - it's terrible, the baby should go to bed on time. Do not pay attention, all parents teach their children. He wants to sleep, falls asleep on a sofa at a party. And begins to act up - a friend will help.
Guests need to go hungry
Today you are visiting. So that's great! You can not eat half a day to get hungry. There will certainly be a lot of delicious. Well, if the table is not set, you can climb into the refrigerator yourself. It’s not just that they say to guests that they are at home!
Buying food is superfluous
Last time, friends came to visit and bought a lot of goodies. So what! Say that you were in a hurry and there was no time to go to the store. For the sake of decency, you can offer to run to the supermarket. Is your baby allergic or even eats only baby food? Nothing wrong! A friend is a hospitable hostess, so let her think. This is her problem.
Toys with you - why? This is not a kindergarten
Your kid likes to take toys or games with him to the kindergarten. When visiting, dissuade him from this. Let the owners decide what to do with the baby. After all, they love him so much. Everything will be interesting to Kroha: both the girlfriend’s cosmetics, and the collection of Uncle Sasha’s brands.
The kid should be at the parade
Get the best costume for the boy and the most elegant dress for the girl. And do not forget about the bow tie! Shoes varnished also will not hurt. It’s nothing that the suit gets dirty, and the dress of the lower skirt comes off. But before leaving, you can grin squeamishly and say: “How can you not tidy and dusty in the apartment. We could have prepared for the arrival of the guests. ”
And what, I came with a child?
Finally, you escaped from a boring apartment, you do not need to cook, wash and clean.You can relax, calmly have a cup of coffee, crackle about your girlfriend and girlfriend. Isn't that what they do on a visit? And it does not matter that your children have nothing to do, they wander around from corner to corner. A child can have so many different activities. If he is bored, he can paint the wallpaper with lipstick, play in the dishwasher and break half the plates, cut a flower on expensive curtains. Let the kid have fun! Relax with a calm soul.
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Take care of your guests
You came to visit, relaxed, and then your child begins to behave badly ... Champs loudly at a meal, indulges, is naughty, makes faces, jumps and shouts! It's disgusting! It annoys you! Be sure to punish him, because you are a strict mother who knows everything about proper education. Scold the child and be sure to put in a corner! And let your friend help you find a better place and away from you.
My baby is more important than anyone
And of course, what else can you talk about, if not about your baby !? “Yesterday we had our first tooth and the fairy brought money!”, “Last week we enrolled in a music school and will learn to play the piano”, “My girl is the best student in the class!” etc. etc. It’s nothing that your girlfriend is not married yet and she has no children. Let him listen, you are a guest! What is the point of discussing her vacation in the Seychelles, working moments and soon marriage! Praise as much as possible of your child and do not forget to put him nearby - let him hear and be proud of himself! Discuss your girlfriend’s affairs some other time.
It’s indecent to leave before midnight
And be sure to surprise the hospitable hosts. Let them yawn and look at the watch in hope. Hold on a little longer, let's say about three hours. After all, you are the long-awaited guests!
We also read: How to visit friends who have recently had a baby
All the mistakes of young mothers are very well named, there is simply nothing to add. Is it just that none of us is safe from them. I also came to visit with an ill child, we do not remember both.