How can a young mother cope with a child and household chores

A childcare leave is least like a holiday at the resort, despite the name. In addition to actually caring for the baby, which requires a lot of effort and time, all the household chores remain on the young mother. How to maintain order and comfort in the house without depriving yourself and your baby of attention and time? The experience of generations can be added to the list of tips that will be useful to every mom.

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Save time by keeping clean and tidy

In the matter of maintaining cleanliness and order in the house, the most important thing is to take away your perfectionism and reconsider your views on cleaning. A recently born child does not need sterile cleanliness, and a growing child is simply incompatible with order.

  • kak-vse-uspetEach item in the house, one way or another, requires a certain personal care. If a thing is not functional and serves only as an aesthetic whole, it is better to remove it for a while. So, for example, you can get rid of carpets, rugs, various trifles on shelves and other "dust collectors" for a short time.
  • In order not to spend a lot of time on cleaning, it is better not to allow the accumulation of a large amount of homework. You can set aside 20 minutes a day for cleaning. During this time, you can tidy up several shelves in the closet or wash the floor. So, doing a little bit every day, you can tirelessly maintain order in the house.
  • Some household chores can be done directly with the baby in her arms, or rather - in sling. For example, together you can wash several plates, put things after drying, wipe the floor.
  • Do not neglect the various "miracles of technology" that are really able to make life easier for a young mother. A washing machine, a washing robot vacuum cleaner, a dishwasher and other gadgets can carry out a tangible amount. Of course, these things require financial investments, but if you donated money for the birth of a baby, you should seriously think about spending them on a useful thing.
  • Ironing children's things, as they diligently did before, is not necessary. After the umbilical wound heals, no additional disinfection is required. And in order for the dried things and diapers to look neater, they can simply be carefully straightened when hanging.
  • Disposable diapers, absorbent diapers, wet wipes help to reduce the amount of washing (which means hanging and folding clothes).
  • Be sure to bring all household members to help with the housework. Take out the trash, wash the cup with you, wipe the table after dinner and other things you can charge your husband and other family members. It would not be superfluous to even make a list of who is responsible for what. This will eliminate constant reminders.

Kitchen time management

Cooking also takes a lot of time, and you need to do this daily. Simple recommendations will help you save hours.

  • Make it a habit to make a menu in advance, and according to it, pre-purchase all the products. You can sketch out a list of simple dishes on a piece of paper, and then highlight a day to provide a supply of all the necessary products in the house. This will eliminate the need to puzzle over what to cook, and then from unscheduled trips to the store if some ingredients are not available.
  • Pre-made and frozen workpieces are very time saving. You can chop and freeze in packages fresh vegetables (onions, carrots, peppers), chop meat for goulash, make semi-finished meat products. When it comes to cooking, you just need to get a portion of vegetables or meat and not waste time cleaning and slicing.
  • The simpler the dishes, the better. You can cook porridge in bags, bake meat in foil in a whole piece. Refuse complex dishes that require continuous presence at the stove.
  • Get relatives to help in the kitchen. Mom or mother-in-law can bring ready meals at least once a week, the husband is also able to participate in cooking. For example, cook a side dish or chop vegetables into a salad.
  • Kitchen appliances also make life easier for a young mother. Slow cooker, vegetable cutter, blender will save time.

We also read: 8 rules of time management for mom

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All these recommendations are very easy to follow, and over time they develop into habits. Mom can do many household chores with an awake baby. The child may be in a sling, deck chair or just be near on the floor (if he can already sit and crawl). But mother’s best time to spend a baby’s sleep is on vacation or some pleasant activities. The best options for relaxation are a dream or a change in type of activity. If you don’t feel sleepy, you can watch your favorite series, read a book, craft it. It is a quality rest that allows you to restore strength, which then is enough for both the baby and household chores.

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  1. Anna

    After the birth of a son, the usual regimen of the day has changed a lot. This mainly affected cooking. I used to cook dinner just before my husband came home from work. Now we cook together in the evening, with the expectation that it will be enough until the next evening. So that my husband comes home from work and has something to eat for dinner, and that I don’t do this during the day. It is very convenient and saves my time and nerves!

  2. Julia

    Alas, mother is accustomed to do everything with one hand. I try to do all the basic things when my husband is at home and looks after the baby.And while the baby is sleeping, and now it is already once a day, I also relax or sleep with him. Mom needs a lot of strength and rest is simply necessary!

  3. Zhenya

    The first three months after the birth of the baby, I always wanted to sleep. And if during the day it was impossible to sleep, then at night she could not because of the baby. Over time, I certainly learned to sleep for half an hour at lunch, and then got up, when the child continued to sleep, I did household chores with a cheerful mood.

  4. Masha

    My mom helped me a lot with watching the baby and with the cleaning. But I certainly wouldn’t do it alone. Especially the most difficult period, when the baby begins to crawl, you need to constantly monitor it.

  5. Irina

    Super mom lives in the countryside in a village or a small town, without running water and sewer, drowns a stove, does laundry in a bath in a semiautomatic washing machine, holds a cow (to drive into a herd, milk, feed), pigs, hens, a dog and cats - everyone needs to be looked after. She has a garden - to dig, plant, weed, water, fight pests and plant diseases, harvest, make preparations for the winter. Plant potatoes in the field, dig out, spud, dig, sort out, save for the winter. She has three children (feed, drink, dress, send to kindergarten, school, work out, learn lessons). And yet - clean up the house, cook breakfast, lunch, dinner. And to work ...

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