The life of a young mother often becomes monotonous and concentrates only around the child. However, even with the baby in her arms, one can continue to lead a busy life. How can a young mother do everything? How not to get bogged down in routine and not turn into a boring housewife? Is it possible to engage in self-realization and not deprive children of attention? How to plan a vacation with your family and why is it so important to go out with your husband at least once a week? Find out by reading the advice of a mother of many children.
Find a hobby that distracts you from routine
Try to find an interesting activity for yourself. You can blog about children, learn something that you didn’t have time for before — to draw, sew, knit, and bake beautiful cakes. All this sometimes even outgrows to the source of additional income.
Do not forget about the husband
Try to date your husband at least once a week. Ask your grandparents to sit with their beloved grandchildren, and go to the cinema, restaurant, concert or just take a walk. Time spent alone without children will help maintain a spark in a relationship.
Set the daily routine for children
Make sure that the baby respects the regime and does not sit in the evenings in front of a computer or TV, but goes to bed on time - for example, at 21.00. Then in the mornings it will be easy to wake up and gather in a kindergarten or school without whims. By sending a child to bed, you can devote the evening to yourself and your husband.
Spend a weekend with your family
Do all your homework during the week: do not put off cleaning, washing, and other household chores for the weekend. In this case, on Saturday and Sunday you can relax with the whole family - take a walk in the park together, watch an interesting film, go somewhere. A weekend full of interesting events will energize your family for a whole week.
Do not do what you do not like
If you do not like to iron, it is absolutely not necessary to iron all things carefully, they will not become worse from this. There is no need to bring crystal clearness in the house either. If the children helped you clean the floor, but didn’t do it very well, you don’t need to redo all the work for them. The child does not care about the ideal order at home, the main thing for him is that his mother is kind and in a good mood. So, having carved a free minute, it’s better to just relax.
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