Often parents do not think that every word or remark spoken to the child leaves a trace in his soul for life and forms his character. We offer parents a list of phrases that will help the baby achieve great success in life.
1. I love you
The child must hear these words every day, regardless of age. Of course, any phrases are good when they are confirmed by deeds. Spend more time with the baby, participate in his life, take an interest in his problems. Let your every day begin with a declaration of love. When children know that they are loved, they grow up calm and confident.
2. It’s good that you were born
We are all unique, there are no two identical people in the world. It is very important to impress upon the child from birth that he is the one and only in the whole world. A child should know that his birth is the best that could happen in the life of his parents. It is especially important for those children who have a younger brother or sister to know. A small person must be sure that parental love is enough for everyone.
3. You will succeed
Any, even the most elementary task, may seem insurmountable to the child, because the kids vaguely represent the boundaries of their capabilities. Therefore, it is so important to often remind the crumbs that he will succeed.
4. I believe in you
Trust in the family is very important. When you tell your baby that you believe in him, you must be sure that he is able to cope with the task. The trust of parents inspires a small person, instills confidence in his own abilities and instills a sense of responsibility for his decisions and actions.
5. How good it is when we are together
Repeat these words more often: the baby is very pleased to listen to this, because he also loves being with his mother, and verbal confirmation will fill his heart with happiness.
6. Thank you
Do not forget to praise the child for the fact that he himself removed the toys, helped to wash the dishes or sweep the floors. Thank him, first of all, for his desire to help. And only then you can point out the mistakes if the baby didn’t succeed. Thank you - a magic word that teaches courtesy and motivates.
7. How can I help you?
Help should be offered tactfully and carefully so that the child does not lose the desire to act independently. Give the baby the opportunity to do something himself, or at least try. Help in the case when the child really does not cope with the task, so that next time the baby completes the task independently.
8. I want to tell you
Live communication between parents and children will not be replaced by any books, cartoons and educational games. Talk with your child, tell tales and real stories from the life of your family, talk with him about the time when you yourself were a child.
9. I will always be there
If the child is experiencing a difficult situation, it is important to support him. Even if the children do the wrong thing, they need to be told about it with maximum tact. If the baby is sure that in a difficult situation relatives will come to his aid, he will cope with difficulties much faster.
10. Good morning / good dreams
It is very important to start a new day with a smile and good morning wishes. Let the first thing that the baby sees after waking up is her mother's happy face and pleasant words. “Good dreams” is like an evening ritual that sets the child to rest. This phrase actually has a deep meaning, as if the mother were telling the baby: “I’m close, we say goodbye for a short time, I love you and protect your dream.”
11. You are my pride
Any achievement of your child, even the smallest - this is an occasion for parental pride. Tie shoelaces, learn a rhyme, speak at a matinee in a kindergarten for a baby a huge step forward. If the baby sees how highly his parents value his successes, this will give him strength for new achievements and discoveries.
12. Do not give up
Any difficulty seems like a catastrophe to the baby. It depends on mom and dad how he learns the principle of "never give up." Remind the child of this at every failure, even if at first glance the situation seems hopeless. Any person has the right to make a mistake, and if the child is not told about it in time, he will form an inferiority complex. Knowing that in any situation the family will understand and support you is the most important value for a person at any age.
13. Help me
A sense of self-worth and need is necessary for children no less than adults. Let the little one help you with household chores little by little, but daily.
14. Let me hug you
Studies by American psychologists show that for health, a child needs to be hugged 4 times a day, for peace - 8 times, and for successful personality formation - 12 times every day. Hugs relieve tension, contribute to the mental and physical development of a full-fledged person.
15. How are you?
Ask this question to the child every evening, because for sure something important happened for the day for him. So you teach your child to discuss with parents what is happening in his life. Sincerely take an interest in his affairs, even if you are tired and want to relax, and the child gets confused and confused, telling you about some event. If you want to keep in touch with children in their teens, heart-to-heart talk should become a habit from childhood.
It is important for all parents to remember that for their child they are the most important people in life, from whom the child expects protection and advice, and not criticism and humiliation. Therefore, no matter what happens, you need to find the strength in yourself to tell the child: "I am with you, I love you, I am on your side."
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