Any parent can cope with children's hysteria. There are many non-standard and at the same time effective ways to help stop the flow of tears and sobs of the baby.
Distract the baby with an unexpected request: “Blow on my forehead / nose / cheek”
The exhalation technique is a proven soothing technique. In this situation, the crying child should exhale, not mom and dad. It is difficult to explain this to the baby, but he is likely to be able to fulfill his mother’s request. Ask the whim to blow on your face. Such a request will amuse and amuse the child and distract him from sobbing.
This lesson will please the baby, and most importantly - with each exhalation, he will calm down.
Caress the baby
Children's tantrums often annoy the mother and cause a desire to immediately punish the child. It is necessary to overcome this negative impulse and drown the baby in their arms: hug, kiss, caress.
Children often have tantrums due to a lack of parental attention and a lack of tactile contact. The more often you will hug your child in your arms, the better. The child will feel much calmer and more confident.
Arrange games on the floor
The essence of this method is to go down to the level of your crumbs and give him the palm in the game. Let the baby lead the process and give commands. The initiative must come entirely from the child. The main rule in this undertaking is strict submission to the little commander.
As soon as his desire to command is fulfilled, the sob will end by itself.
Buzz or hiss long
You can use the method of separation of feelings. The method is rather non-standard, however, very effective. The principle of this method is to try to draw consonant sounds. You can hiss, buzz, and to make sounds you need a couple of tones quieter than the sounds of the baby. After some time, the whim will calm down.
When a child is crying loudly, you can try to pronounce vowel sounds, such as “oooh” or “aaaa”. If the sound falls into the rhythm of baby crying, the baby will adjust to it and quickly subside.
Speak words in a foreign language
Not all mothers and fathers will be able to apply this method, because not everyone knows a foreign language. Although the baby you are very surprised by this. If a parent suddenly speaks a foreign language, the effect will be grandiose. The kid will begin to listen to the mysterious dialect of his parents, and forget about hysteria and crying.
Emotions are an integral part of our life. Just a little man does not know how to manage them.Hysteria for the baby is often the only way to convey important information to us. And we, adults, need to be careful and patient with our children, while maintaining inner calm in any situation.
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