Education is a science. Unfortunately, often it seems to parents that the best means of influencing the child is a cry. Here are 13 bad tips for parents on how to shout at the offspring. They will help to understand what this can lead to in communication with the baby.
Raising children is not easy at all. Each of us has the image of a “good parent” in our heads. And, most likely, he does not have a mom or dad screaming loudly at the child for his every misconduct. We understand that this is not the best means of upbringing, we suffer and repent after we fell into a cry.
Below are 13 comic bad advice on how to properly shout at a child. Maybe they will help us to look at ourselves from the side and at the next hot moment they will stop the scream, ready to break our lips.
If your baby doesn’t want
Do what you need to do
For a long time you don’t have to think:
Make noise and din!
Talk with your child in elevated tones, every time you see that the child is not doing what you want.
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You say very loudly:
"What are you doing?! It’s impossible! ”
Immediately shout
Scary bulging eyes.
Each time, remind the child aloud that there is the word “DO NOT“. And do not forget to ask with indignation, “WHAT DO YOU DO?”
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If whims have begun,
Tears flowed from my eyes
You will reorient him:
After all, your voice is louder!
When your baby naughty and crying, try to shout it down so that he understands whose voice is louder.
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If you’re very tired,
My head ached
Tear the evil on the child -
Maybe she will pass!
If you have a headache in the evening, then yell at the child. Perhaps the headache will go away.
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If the baby is accidental
Suddenly fell, got dirty,
To make it easier for him -
You can’t do without a scream!
Be sure to yell at the child when he fell or got dirty. After all, only from your cry will it become easier for him.
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When in the evening a child
It bothers you to relax,
Does not give by phone
You and your friend chat, -
Find the right tool:
Shout loudly
Send it also
To play in the far corner.
If your child spins around you all evening, asks all sorts of questions and prevents you from talking on the phone, you need to shout at him sharply and loudly. And then send to the far corner to play alone.
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To exactly your child
I realized all my guilt
When you shout at him
Call a couple of times.
When yelling at a child, use insults, so the child will better understand what his mistake is.
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Choose a better place
Where to scold the child.
If you shout in public -
It will be better understood.
The best place to yell at a child is with outsiders, with friends, on the street. So the child will be ashamed not only for himself, but also for you.
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If learning something
The peanut is still
You’re yelling at him,
Call out the dumb.
After all, you, of course,
Better will be the result!
When a child tries to show independence and it doesn’t succeed, the best thing you can do is scream and call him stupid.
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For parents, patience is
A very harmful trait.
It is unlikely that education
It will come in handy for you.
That’s why it’s not necessary
Krohe long to explain -
Have you said twice
Or as many as twenty-five
If you shout right away -
It will be better understood!
Patience is useless to parents. Children should not repeat the same thing more than two times. After all, children sometimes understand only from the twenty-fifth time. Therefore, you need to shout right away.
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And when the child realized
What the misconduct did
Even makes an attempt
Justify yourself before you,
You don’t need to listen to the baby,
It is only necessary to do this:
Loudly, cursing for a long time,
So next time
And the desire to make excuses
It did not arise from him!
If the child admits his mistake and tries to make excuses, do not listen to him. It is necessary to interrupt him and swear for a long time, so that the next time the child would not even think to explain his misconduct.
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If you want very much
Show love to him
You are often on a child
Raise your voice.
Only in this way can he understand
How dear and loved.
Tenderness, affection, compassion
It certainly is useless!
You need to yell at the child more often, only in this way he will understand how indifferent you are and how you love him. Words of love and tenderness are useless.
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Everyone knows: very bad
Keep emotions in yourself.
So it’s possible for no reason
Scream at the child.
This is the best way.
Relieve stress
But alas, it will not cause
Have a child of respect!
And generally shout at the child for any reason. This is a very convenient way to get rid of negative emotions.
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If you follow these tips, soon the child will become so accustomed to your scream that he will completely stop responding to it. And then - then you can scream at the child for your pleasure without a break, at least all 24 hours a day. And the worst thing is that he will not hear the words addressed to him in a calm tone.
Good luck, parents!
We also read:
What should I do if I constantly scream at my child? -https://kid.htgetrid.com/en/psihologiya-detey/chto-mne-delat-esli-ya-postoyanno-krichu-na-svoego-rebenka.html
10 tips to stop yelling at your children -https://kid.htgetrid.com/en/psihologiya-detey/kak-perestat-krichat-na-svoih-detey.html
From the practice of a psychologist: why do we scream at children? -https://kid.htgetrid.com/en/psihologiya-detey/iz-praktiki-psihologa-pochemu-myi-krichim-na-detey.html
How not to scream at the child:
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I probably read hundreds of such articles, and none of them said HOW to restrain myself if I couldn’t reach the child with simple words and voice! In one book, I read that it is important to engage in eye contact.