7 bad tips on raising a boy

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School of advanced mothers, or 7 harmful tips for raising a "real man"

How often today women sigh, they say, true knights were transferred, a man shredded. Parents often follow stereotyped ideas about the upbringing of the boy: so as not to grow up as a “whiner” with a “rag” and “slobber”. How to raise a real man from his son? For you, there are seven “tips of advanced mothers” that need to be taken exactly the opposite.

1. Be sure to give change

Diplomacy? No, they didn’t hear, and for the weaklings all diplomacy. Apparently, this is one of the boudoirs of pampered young ladies. There is only one way to resolve any issue - to give back to the one who first started the conflict. A real man solves any conflict, weighing what he deserves to his offenders. What negotiations, compromises and solutions are suitable for everyone! Someone pushed at the site or grabbed a toy, much less without demand? - In the eye of a villain to remember! It is advisable, without a preface, to shake the air for nothing. You need to immediately show who is stronger here. And let your son never have friends, because no one will dare and go close to him, will bypass. Since they are afraid, they are respected. And the respect of the whole court, or even the microdistrict, is much more worthwhile than any friendship there.

2. Protecting the interests of the child is in your hands

Learning to give back and defend interests is better by example. Remember: no matter what happens, your child is always right. Push his offenders away from the sandbox, take away toys, shovels, cars from them, take the children off the slide, swing if the son wants to ride, they will wait, the bar is not big (“You can wait, but my son really needs it”). Mothers trying to stand up for their child also need to be expelled from the site. Let everyone in the courtyard know that you and your beloved baby should not enter into disputes for any reason. Anyway: let the surrounding mothers and children learn your battle cry: “Who offended my son here ?!”

3. Drawing and dancing are not men's activities

In the context of the foregoing, we select the correct sections for the development of the baby. Ideal options - Greco-Roman wrestling, karate, boxing, any other self-defense courses.Otherwise, how does he stand up for himself in a controversial situation? But the son’s love for all kinds of dances, chants, drawing and other intellectually creative husks needs to be strangled in its infancy. It’s completely useless for a man. The boys do not engage in such nonsense. And even if he himself wants to sing or dance, you are the mother - you know better. Growing up - he will say thanks.

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4. Leave home economics to the girls

If you wish your son happiness, then in no case do not accustom him to homework. Washing dishes, preparing food (even if only for oneself), vacuuming, washing clothes and cleaning up after oneself are activities for women or wimps. A strong man is by nature superior to any routine homework, he is not for this. The maximum is to make a sandwich and heat up the sausages in the microwave. For everything else, there are wives, otherwise why should they be fed? And you’ll pick up your beloved son’s wife ...

5. Share negative opinions about the opposite field

Do you want to teach your son to see the female gender in true light? Well, you just need to often nod to him what bad girls surround him in kindergarten / yard / school. They are greedy (they don’t share tasty things or toys), they are sloppy (they go with disheveled braids or twisted skirts), and they are simply ugly (especially the red one, in the cannons - what a nasty thing!). So you will kill two birds with one stone: first, teach the child to see the surrounding girls / girls / women as they really are - not ideal (and your child needs only an ideal). Secondly, acting in this way you inspire confidence in your opinion from childhood on, so that you remain authority for your son until the end of your life.

6. Inspire your son that there is nobody better than mom, only mother is the perfect woman

From early childhood inspire your son that only you - his mother - know how everything should be washed, washed and decomposed. Only you cook the right and tastiest of all, and in general - live the way you should live. And no other woman, even if she was Vasilisa a hundred times Beautiful and a hundred times Wise, can do something, know or be able to, better than you, his mother.

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The perfect woman is impossible to find. If we are not talking about caring, loyal, reliable, wise, stylish, neat, with a great sense of humor, and also the best-prepared and cleanest mother who cleans all. This is exactly what your son must confirm since childhood, otherwise he should not see personal happiness for him. After all, not one of the women he came across really beats you in any of the listed parameters.

7. Look for a caring “mommy” for your son

Of course, it is impossible to find among women another one like you. But even your boy alone cannot stay - nobody canceled the need for a glass of water in old age. Therefore, take as a goal to provide a son with such a wife, which would put his interests above his own. A wife and any achievements, hobbies, hobbies, even her own health, the wife should without hesitation put on the altar of her husband’s well-being at the first request. Another point does not suit your son. Only he is the main and only in her life.

And remember! Your son is your treasure, your treasure, and therefore educating him is somehow unacceptable! Not sparing physical and mental strength, fight for his well-being day and night and direct maximum efforts to his competent education and all-round development as a real man.

If at some points you recognize yourself, review your principles and methods, before it’s too late, urgently come to your senses and try to continue to do everything exactly the opposite.

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